Saturday, May 28, 2011

The Joy of Small Things


As I stood blowing soap bubbles, I attracted quite a few glances from passersby. I can well imagine the thoughts passing through their mind (but, I’d rather not mention them). The fact is I was thoroughly enjoying myself. Perfect, shiny, bubbles of varying sizes, glistening in the evening sun floating aimlessly till they burst into nothingness. Such a joy watching them!
As a child I could spend hours visualizing the patterns in the clouds or watching ants at work. The movement of a butterfly flitting from flower to flower was exciting. So was a spider spinning a web. Collecting the pretty orange and white flowers of the parijata in our courtyard and threading them to decorate the neck of the Lord gave me immense joy, as much as sewing and folding leaves and paper into various shapes. And painting? I could be at it for hours, if I wasn’t engrossed in reading. A slow drive around town or a walk on the beach or watching the sunset from the Monte, with my Dad, provided a perfect end to the day. Delightful indeed!
Somewhere along the way we lose this ability to experience joy in the small things in life. As we grow up we need more and more for the smallest amount of joy. The ‘latest’ mobile loses its charm within a few days of its purchase as our eyes are already on a newer model. Cars are changed as often as innerwear and clothes…oh…difficult to wear them more than twice. Neither birds nor butterflies can stand up to the competition of movies and TV serials. And who has the time to sit and paint when FB, Twitter and email keep us at their beck and call.
Walking with a skip and a jump, jumping to touch the door top, swinging high in the air, stopping to smell the flowers and watch the sunset…these are but small things that add a little sparkle to our life, keeping alive that child in us. It is only in being childlike that we can experience the joy of small things. The good news is, it’s never too late to stop and feel the breeze, observe the fish in the stream or the turtle in the well. Go ahead - rekindle the joy of small things. After all, it’s matchless.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Everyone Needs a Friend












Everyone needs a friend
When they are down and out.
But what do you do
When the very one you’re calling
Is too far to reach out?
Distances aren’t measured
In miles and kilometres
The distance between the hearts
Is all that really matters.
So near yet so far
Fingers touching
With the hearts miles apart.
What do you do
To fill the yawning gap?
Will an apology work
To create a miracle in a snap?
Wounds do heal with time
Scars remain to remind.
Of years gone by in pain
Of times you bled in vain.

The one who reaches you
The one who bails you out
Is the winner of the trophy
That you never set to give out.
What is friendship then,
A measure of give and take?
Or is it about giving
Putting everything at stake?
There is no turning back
Sometimes you have to move
Keep going and look up,
Dragging yourself if need be
Just not giving up.
The silver lining on the cloud
May be dull and cheerless
The fact that it is there
Provides you hope immense.

-         Rukma Naik

Friday, April 23, 2010

The Question

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
The answer’s hidden out there
Uncover it you’re told.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
The answer’s in reverse
Turn it over to know.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
Creation is thy name
Mull it over.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
Look for it
That’s the goal.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
Buried in a code
Decipher to learn.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
It’s on sale
Cost unaffordable.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
Each day new
Tomorrow unknown.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
It doesn’t fade
Nor grow old.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
Searched all over
A tired soul.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?
Ready to give up
I’m on the shore.

A question,
With no answer;
Or is it so?

- R